advice

often times when people are looking for advice, they are only looking for someone to verify their own beliefs or decisions.

and people will do whatever they want to do regardless of what advice is given to them

but it's important that when you are giving yourself advice, to step outside of yourself and give yourself some advice
if you were a different guy or girl, what would u say to yourself
because the advice u may give yourself is probably different then what you actually want to do.